23rd is a charm! | My Freaking Birthday

I'm not happy, I'm not sad, kind of indifferent, I don't care, keeping acting cool like nothing special is happening or going to happen today. Birthdays are for those who have aims and objectives, I don't have any of that. Birthdays are also for those who have a lot of significant achievements by the time they're 23, for instance. I have very few with questionable significances at best. For one day I'll put my self-pity on hold, not going to regret anything, tomorrow is another day, I'll have enough time for self-pity.

This day barely started but I'm already wishing it to end, not going to visit facebook or any other social network (just for today, don't make any assumptions) just planning a little gathering of few people I like seeing and who will make me feel normal, not asking for too much, just for some normality.

Today, for the first time I'm going to blow twenty-three birthday candles, and if it's not pathetic enough I bought them myself. You might wonder what kind of parents I have, well don't. It's going to be good, I feel it's going to be a birthday to remembers, to recall it when I'm gonna be old and tell it to my grand kids, and that's if i ever decide to have kids, it will be a miracle considering how much my parents messed up. But enough about them, today is about me, and about my friends, don't like to be in the center of attention, that's why I'm gonna drag them in the center of attention too.

What my birthday wishes are ?

Happy Birthday Dear Cancerians

Today I'm gonna take some time and congratulate all the cancerians I know and the ones I would have liked to know by saying a few nice words in their address and defending my title of Mr. Originality in terms of bringing the most original congratulating messages, of any kind, not just the birthday ones.

For an average human life is hard, for a cancerian life is ten times harder, a keen observation made not only on my own experience but on others' too. With that being said I wanna wish them to have enough valuable people in their lives, the kind that will help them with what they need, the kind to say a few nice words everyday that will bring a bit of comfort and feel that one more day can be classified as a successful one, one that was not lost in vain. Cancerians are special people with magical abilities, they can heal everything by giving a kind touch charged with kind feelings and a pure heart. That's why they deserve to be surrounded by the same kind of people and that is what I wish them.

Cancerians will always be hunted by their pasts and what I wish them is to learn to live with it, wish them to find a coping mechanism and not let it affect them, I wish them enough self-confidence and ambition to see only the good memories. I wish them to be understood the way it was meant for them to be understood, they're different, they're seven rays of a rainbow. The cancerian is a man of many talents, one can be whatever one wants, but for some of the cancerians it's hard to do it alone, they're people of whom you say "But there are some born to shine who can't do it alone/ So protect them and take special care/ Take care". I know for a fact that they can succeed in a lot of aspects, social, economy or politics, what they need is some will, hard work and a good support system formed by people they love, parents and best friends. I wish them to succeed and be lucky 'cause one thing they lack and that is not their fault is luck. I still haven't met one cancerian that never had any problems on terms of luck.

My Top 10 Best Written Articles.

Many of us, bloggers, don't have english as their primary language so writing an article in english may come sometimes as a pretty serious challenge. With every time we're writing an article we're getting better and better, and yet most of time our work is beyond under-appreciated.

I thought making a top 10 best written articles may spice things up and improve the stats of my blog, I'm doing my best and seeing that people I care about are barely noticing me rising above my living circumstances it's a bit frustrating. 

This blog is a personal one, I've invested a lot of time and basically my entire personality in it and it's a big shame that is doesn't have enough publicity (actually I wanted to use another word which at the moment I can't remember). I invite you to read some snippets and if you are going to be curious enough read the entire articles. Keep in mind that the top 10 articles are not put in an order from the less important to the most important one.

1. Lindsay Lohan and other Cancerians.

This is my first article about a celebrity and trust me, Lindsay Lohan is one. There is an expression stating that sometimes "art imitates life", in Lindsy's case life imitated what should've been art.

For the last few years I found myself helpless at doing something to help and just kept reading trashy news about her but not once I let them influence my own opinion. It's easy to take shots at somebody rather than looking at yourself in the mirror, your life isn't perfect or so you may think and yet you find yourself pointing so easily at others' lives.

Full article.

Guide: Best congratulating messages for Birthdays!

Congratulating your friends with their birthdays may come to you as a problem only in cases when you manage to remember the actual dates. No matter what people say about not carrying if they are or not congratulated on their birthdays they care what happens on their birthdays anyway, they care who calls, what they say and how they say it, but most certainly they care of who did not call, did not say anything, did not care.

And I cal tell, these assumptions were made based on my experience and on what I have been observing for a lifetime now.

Nowadays you can afford having a bad memory, there are tools like Facebook Events to remind you of upcoming birthdays of people who really know that the only thing worse than being over the hill...is being buried under it. (dark humor)

Now that you know who are having their birthdays soon, the least you can do is write on their Facebook wall or simply send an SMS containing a lame "Happy Birthday".

But that type of message is a proof of lack of originality on your side or even worse, did it just for the sake of doing it.

Editing a congratulating message don't hesitate to include in that message bits of your personality, also include a few words that will describe the person that is message is written for, making it this way personal.

Try writing a few phrases in an original way, ex.:

"May every raindrop that falls in your palm signify the luck of having true friends always by your side, the number of these raindrops to be the happy moments with your loved ones, the clarity of the raindrops bring the bright future to you, the future full of pleasant surprises and lots of success, and most importantly never forget that disregarding rainy days or shinny days, I'm gonna be there for you, in person or in my thoughts, and ending I'm gonna add a clichéd "Happy Birthday""

If you are a person who likes to through jokes around and be sarcastic that may come in handy:

"Happy B-day sweetie, wish you well, never forget, there is always someone who worries about you and is not your mom, or your cousin and definitely not president Obama, I'm sure you'll figure it out who :) never forget there is always someone who keeps fingers crossed for you, be good and behave, show the best of you like I taught you :-p and most of all, don't forget you'll always have me :D Happy B-day !!!

p.s. gosh , you're getting so old :D "

  Originality - a quality that is always highly appreciated, when congratulating somebody do it right, do it with dedication, don't just send an empty message with no meaningfulness which is gonna bring unpleasant emotions rather than positive ones, and if it's what you mean to do you better not do it at all rather than giving the false impression of giving a s*it.

Hope this article contributed to making this world a better place to live in.

Have a nice day. Cheers.

P.S. My birthday is on July 6, just in case :)

Friends with Celebrities.

For my entire life, I've treated friendships like relationships, in a weird way they're not very different. As for girlfriends/boyfriends you care for your friends, you take care of them.

I always screen my list of friends from zodiacal point of view, some people may consider it is bullshit. And I always mention that they should not confuse daily horoscope with zodiacal signs, where the first one it's complete non-sense. You may believe it or not, but take a second and think of someone you cannot stand, remember his/hers birthday and compare it to your sign, and you'll see you're not compatible.

Also, I always took a behind-the-curtain stand and analyze what's happening around and in front of me. Having a good memory (especially on what, who and when something has been done to me) I analyzed my friends and my "used to be" friends and think of why it didn't work out. As some sources say, the best friends for my sign (cancer) are the ones born in March (until 20, Pisces), May (until 20, Taurus) and November (until 21, Scorpio). I also am in good terms, generally with the ones from my own sign, Cancers, also with from Aquarius, Virgo and Sagittarius.

Making at least one visit on IMDb to look for the latest news in cinematography and watch the trailers for the upcoming movies, I also take a look on celebrities having their birthdays, sometimes I look surprised to know that some of them are born on certain days, but other times I think how good friends would we be if we were born in a perfect world.

All of the sudden I got the idea of making a list of the celebrities I'd be good buds with, I think why not ?! So, let's begin with Scorpios who proved to be my best friends.

Today is my birthday!

Specific unui rac, ziua de nastere nu e tocmai cea mai fericita zi din an, de ziua de nastere (racii) simt indeosebi ca lipseste acel ceva, de ziua de nastere se gindesc ce nu au realizat pina atunci fara sa se gindeasca ca totusi au avut un impact enorm asupra unor persoane. Realizeaza ca au mai imbatrinit cu un an desi in suflet sunt la fel de tineri, desi sunt mai intelepti, cu inca 365 de zile de experienta.

Ghid: Cum sa feliciti o persoana de ziua de nastere !