Only one way to love

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away."

Although I'm not a fan of the Bible or God but there are no other words to define love better than the ones above. I like the way they sounds "love is patient, love is kind", it makes me feel so comfortable but at the same I tell myself those soothing words to calm down and reduce the self-struggles and the anxiety I feel inside. These words show the kind of love that everybody should benefit from and there is no other kind like it. It pains me to think that there are so many people around the world who need to be loved but have nobody besides them. At some point in our lives we all were loved but it doesn't mean we should settle for the amount of love we already had. Although it comes in small doses we all felt it but for some of us it doesn't pass a day not to crave for some love.

Dare to love because it makes you a better person and only a crazy man wouldn't want that, don't be afraid of not knowing how to love, if your love is genuine you'll know how, just listen to your heart but don't ignore your rationality, love is not to be rationalized but also is not to be followed blindly. Even though not all of us were truly loved there are no real obstacles not to abound in love ourselves, we all learn at some point and there is no other thing more beautiful than learning to love. True love changes you to the very core.

Love is patient, love is kind but sometimes it hurts to, it hurts to love 'cause most of the time you can't tell your heart who to love, most of the time it runs itself, it makes its own choices. Well, all I can say is that time heals, it will take a lot of time to forget the one you truly loved but did not love you back, this is one of the many downsides of life.

There are cases when people fool themselves and lie to themselves that they love but they don't know or refuse to comprehend that what they call love is actually being possessive. Ordering around the object of admiration is not love for sure. Calling names and screaming at each is not called love. Love gives you butterflies, makes you fly, makes you feel like you can move mountains, if while loving you don't feel any of these than it is not love. Love gives you the patience to wait for the changes you've been wanting for quite some time. Love protects you from loneliness, loneliness is good only when it comes in small doses. Love doesn't forget about you, it's always there for you, fights for you, never gives up on you. It surrounds you even if the ones that love are not around, it knows no borders and needs no passports, it can fly, it can swim, it can walk, one minute is here the next one is at a half the world distance comforting the one you can't stop thinking about.

You don't mess with the power of love because it's the most pure thing in the whole world, it heals everything and defeats every evil.

I wish you to know the true form of love, the one that comforts you when you need it the most, that makes you a great person that everyone wants to be like, that inspires to make great things, that makes you help the people that were less fortunate than you and give them a hand and pull them into the light and never give up on them. This is the kind of love I'm wishing for everybody, this is the kind I'm wishing for myself. I wish you to have great love that will inspire filmmakers to shoot true cinematographic works that will live through centuries, great love that will give birth to amazing songs and stunning voices, the kind of love great paintings are based on. Everybody deserves such love and that is why I truly want to believe that there is one more shot for everybody to live one more life from scratch just to have the chance to truly fall in love and never let it go.

I wish every man and woman to find their better halves, I wish for all children  to be loved by their parents and never know loneliness and despair, I wish for every parents to be taken care of the right way. 

I wish to be enough love so monsters with guns to never see the light of the day, monsters are not born they are made by us, the kind of people who refrain themselves from loving one another, who like to spread misery and hate, I wish to be enough love so we all could put a stop to raising monsters and to never ache from tragedies. There is enough space for everybody, no need to cut throats and take what doesn't belong to you, ....

We are the world, we are the children
We are the ones who make a brighter day
So lets start giving
There's a choice we're making
We're saving our own lives
Its true we'll make a better day
Just you and me.

Be kind to one another.


  1. I like how you describe LOVE. That is exactly the kind of love I learned through childhood. Then when I started living on my own, I started doubting if it ever exists in the outside world.

  2. Well, if you had it while you were little then for sure you'll have it while being a grown up. And i envy you for knowing this kind of love while being a child, I never did.

  3. Now I think, the irony comes in. I have been reading some of your personal blog posts, and I actually realized that.

    You know what, not only once that I wished I never had to meet the unselfish kind of love when I was a child. I dunno if people realize this, but the things you learn during childhood are the things that will mark in your personality as you grow up. No matter how you like it or not, they will still come out from you naturally.

    When time came that I had to start facing the world on my own, I realize that the love I learned from my childhood doesn't really exist in two the world outside our house. I was hurt, over and over again to now; because I can't help myself sharing the love that I know.

    I imagine, maybe, if only I didn't learn real love from my family, maybe I would never knew it exists, and would never try to look for it from other people.

  4. you know, it's not about the love we knew as kids, of course it marks us but we get hurt because of much more things and the unselfish love is one of them. i never knew it and I still look for it and I get hurt.

  5. I based on the learning process. How can u find what you're looking for, if you don't know it?

  6. it doesn't apply to empathetic people :) I hope you know what empathy is and hope you know empathetic people around you.

  7. Yea, I know empathy. :) I realized, u from UK, right? Intercultural communication. I am sorry. You know, empathy has been part of my job but not really practice it. It's always nice to hear empathy statements, but not as helpful as hearing 'what can be done.' ^^

  8. although it's and I should be sleeping now but I couldn't resist not to thank you for thinking I'm from UK, unfortunately for me I'm not from UK, I'm from Eastern Europe, I'd rather shut up and not say where from exactly :) see in the right sidebar the link for empathy, I rambled on a bit about empathy a few months back, it's good being empathetic but also there are some downsides which bug me from time to time and when it does it bugs me hard :)

  9. hmm.. I think I am glad you are not from UK. :) I am scared of talking to Brits, cultural issue; either they'll find me mean or I'll get nuts with their sarcasm. hehehe. Yea it is good to be empathetic, but yea anything which has something to do with emotions has a downside, so I avoid as much as possible.

    Anyway, as what I said earlier, the odds came in. I was complaining for not finding the kind of love I knew, but here you came who has been looking all your life for a kind of love you never knew. :(

    Maybe simpler way to say, stop looking. I stopped. You know some things are found when you don't actually look for it. :)

  10. I'll try not to :) but as for not dealing with emotion and trying to avoid them as much as possible is worse than dealing with them but it's your choice, sometimes I wish I could avoid them but with me everything is about feelings :-P

  11. hmmm.. to be honest, haven't been successful yet. :)

    with emotions.. uhmm.. it's either I only had enough, or you have just been longing for something you never had for such a long time..

    I can't think straight if I am in the midst of my emotions..:)

  12. Very nice post.. Love is makes the real you..
    Keep it up eugenius!
    By the way, thought of exchanging links with you..mine is at if you may... Thanks!